It’s so frustrating. You’re sitting there thinking “come up with something clever… come on… what should I SAY to her?” Knowing what to text a girl isn’t rocket science, but trust me – I know how annoying it can be. That’s ok – there IS an easy, proven way to make her laugh and like you. And that’s why you’re here. My name is Christian, and after years of texting girls (hundreds of them), I’ve seen everything. So if you want some great texting tips – and if there’s one girl in particular who you want to use ‘em on – then I’d bet my pair of flip-flops that I have the answers you’re looking for.
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What To Text A Girl You Like
Ok, now regarding what to text a girl, well, let’s start with some stuff about how to approach it. Most guys screw up when they’re texting a girl for one of three reasons:
- They don’t stand out from other guys texting her
- They “give away” their power by being over-eager, not being challenging enough, etc.
- They try to be “too cool” and prove something
So with that in mind, how do you reverse it?
Texting Principle 1: Show Some Personality
I remember I used to spend hours thinking of the perfect first text. And then it’d usually end up being something like “what’s up?” or “hey, good to meet ya”. I didn’t want to risk it with a girl I liked. But every guy texts her like this, and what does this give her to go on? Why should she get enthusiastic about responding to something like this? Instead, your mindset with just about every text message you send should be “how can I make her smile with what I’m about to write?” If you can just keep this in mind then you’ll start doing a LOT better with texting girls. Learn about the first text message to send to a girl.
Texting Principle 2: Be A Challenge (But Playfully)
I know you like her and you want to move things along. But hold your horses, cowboy. Don’t make things too easy for her. She’s going to think that you’ve got nothing better going on. In the early stages, don’t text her back immediately – wait about the same time it took her to write back to you. And when it comes time to ask a girl out, tease her – “ok, we can go out, but just don’t embarrass me with any tube stockings 
” She’ll love the playful challenge. You also might want to learn how to flirt with a girl over text.
Texting Principle 3: Don’t Try To Prove Something
A lot of guys screw up here. They try to show the girl that they are “cool” because of the party they’re going to, the people they know, the things they’re doing. That is all well and good – sometimes I will text a girl that I’m “only going to the most fun bar on planet earth” – but notice I said fun – not most exclusive or coolest. Big difference. If you find yourself thinking “she’ll be impressed by this” then don’t send the text message. Remember – how can you make her smile?
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